Lucid Dreams: A Brief How-To

Lucid Dreams: A Brief How-To

In lucid dreams, dreamers realize they are dreaming and can assume control of dream events. The idea of lucid dreaming has fascinated me for years, but only recently have I become interested enough to experiment with the technique.

It’s taken me about two months to realize my first lucid dream. Here’s the process I’ve used:

1) Keep a dream journal. Some people obsess on this, keeping a pen and paper beside the bed so they can jot down every dream. Me? I’m a slacker. I remember dreams pretty well, so I wait until morning to record details I recall from the previous night’s dreams.

2) Use the journal to find your personal dream cues. Here’s what you don’t realize about your dreams: they contain repeating patterns, themes, and symbols. In my case, my dreams tend to feature elevators (in my case, very large room-sized ones), skyscrapers and towers, and, oddly — since I’m not star-struck at all — celebrity cameo appearances.

I never noticed this pattern, even while keeping the dream journal; I spotted it after the fact, while reviewing thirty days worth of dreams. Having become aware of the pattern, I can use elevators, skyscrapers, and celebrities as “cues” — signs that will help me recognize that I’m dreaming.

3) Perform “spot checks.” Pause occasionally and ask yourself, even when you know you’re awake, “Am I dreaming?” (You can also tie spot checks to events, pausing to ask the question whenever you walk through doorways or check your watch.) Try to make something unusual happen; if it fails, you’re most likely awake.

It sounds crazy … but, eventually, you’ll start doing spot checks in your dreams, too. The difference? When you try to make something happen — it will.

Using this simple, three-step process, I successfully produced my first lucid dream last night. In the dream, I walked into an elevator with an odd feature: hundreds and hundreds of buttons lining the walls. At first, a standard dream reflex kicked in: “That’s odd,” I said, and I prepared to move on.

Then it hit me: I’m in an elevator. Something strange is going on.

I’m dreaming.

I was immediately able to open the elevator doors simply by thinking about it. I willed them to open on a bright, sunlit meadow; they did. Once in the meadow, I thought of several people I wanted to see: a college friend, a friend who’s moved away, and a television character.

As soon as I thought of them, these people appeared. At this point, I was afraid I would wake up and lose the dream, so I rushed up to speak with them.

Unfortunately — maybe because I’m a beginner at this? — they weren’t quite themselves. They felt real (I hugged one), and they looked real, but they were like bodies without brains. The trio staggered around the meadow, slack-jawed as zombies. No matter how hard I tried to make them behave normally, they just stumbled around and bumped into each other.

Rather than waste more time with these losers, I conducted other experiments. I was able to fly short distances (it looked and felt more like taking extended hops in lunar gravity) and bend or distort objects (like a stop sign) simply by thinking about it.

I woke up refreshed and very proud of myself.

Give lucid dreaming a try! Even with my half-hearted effort, I proved to be just sixty days from my first success. In less than two months, you may find yourself wandering a world where the only limits are those you imagine.

In lucid dreams, dreamers realize they are dreaming and can assume control of dream events. The idea of lucid dreaming has fascinated me for years, but only recently have I become interested enough to experiment with the technique.

It’s taken me about two months to realize my first lucid dream. Here’s the process I’ve used:

1) Keep a dream journal. Some people obsess on this, keeping a pen and paper beside the bed so they can jot down every dream. Me? I’m a slacker. I remember dreams pretty well, so I wait until morning to record details I recall from the previous night’s dreams.

2) Use the journal to find your personal dream cues. Here’s what you don’t realize about your dreams: they contain repeating patterns, themes, and symbols. In my case, my dreams tend to feature elevators (in my case, very large room-sized ones), skyscrapers and towers, and, oddly — since I’m not star-struck at all — celebrity cameo appearances.

I never noticed this pattern, even while keeping the dream journal; I spotted it after the fact, while reviewing thirty days worth of dreams. Having become aware of the pattern, I can use elevators, skyscrapers, and celebrities as “cues” — signs that will help me recognize that I’m dreaming.

3) Perform “spot checks.” Pause occasionally and ask yourself, even when you know you’re awake, “Am I dreaming?” (You can also tie spot checks to events, pausing to ask the question whenever you walk through doorways or check your watch.) Try to make something unusual happen; if it fails, you’re most likely awake.

It sounds crazy … but, eventually, you’ll start doing spot checks in your dreams, too. The difference? When you try to make something happen — it will.

Using this simple, three-step process, I successfully produced my first lucid dream last night. In the dream, I walked into an elevator with an odd feature: hundreds and hundreds of buttons lining the walls. At first, a standard dream reflex kicked in: “That’s odd,” I said, and I prepared to move on.

Then it hit me: I’m in an elevator. Something strange is going on.

I’m dreaming.

I was immediately able to open the elevator doors simply by thinking about it. I willed them to open on a bright, sunlit meadow; they did. Once in the meadow, I thought of several people I wanted to see: a college friend, a friend who’s moved away, and a television character.

As soon as I thought of them, these people appeared. At this point, I was afraid I would wake up and lose the dream, so I rushed up to speak with them.

Unfortunately — maybe because I’m a beginner at this? — they weren’t quite themselves. They felt real (I hugged one), and they looked real, but they were like bodies without brains. The trio staggered around the meadow, slack-jawed as zombies. No matter how hard I tried to make them behave normally, they just stumbled around and bumped into each other.

Rather than waste more time with these losers, I conducted other experiments. I was able to fly short distances (it looked and felt more like taking extended hops in lunar gravity) and bend or distort objects (like a stop sign) simply by thinking about it.

I woke up refreshed and very proud of myself.

Give lucid dreaming a try! Even with my half-hearted effort, I proved to be just sixty days from my first success. In less than two months, you may find yourself wandering a world where the only limits are those you imagine.

Mark McElroy

I'm a husband, mystic, writer, media producer, creative director, tinkerer, blogger, reader, gadget lover, and pizza fiend.

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I'm a husband, mystic, writer, media producer, creative director, tinkerer, blogger, reader, gadget lover, and pizza fiend.

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